“I’m not an idiot.
I know this is not the first time someone has gotten pregnant from their boyfriend,” says one woman, who asked to remain anonymous.
“But it happened to me.
And it was something I never thought I would be able to get over.
I was shocked, and I felt really bad for him, because I’m the one who decided to terminate.”
A few months after the woman discovered her pregnancy, she told her boyfriend that she had already gotten pregnant.
“I was just like, ‘I guess I shouldn’t be having sex with him anymore,'” she says.
“It was hard to understand what was going on with him.
I just wanted him to know that I was okay.”
When she later went to have an abortion, the doctor told her that she was doing it “for her own good.”
“He told me that if I wanted him, I would have to go through with it, and that I should not do it for his good,” she says, adding that she felt she was being punished.
“I was angry and upset, and it felt like the only thing I could do was give up and go home,” she tells Buzzfeed.
“That’s the hardest part of it.
It was hard for me to get out of bed.”
A month after the abortion, she decided to talk to her parents.
“They were like, I know that you have an STD, and we know that it’s something that you can’t have,” she recalls.
“And they said, ‘You know, if you really want to have a baby, you can always get an abortion.'”
She also found out that her boyfriend was dating a woman who had an ectopic pregnancy and had also been diagnosed with an STI.
“He was just so upset,” she adds.
“He was like, my life was so hard, and now I have a kid.”
The pregnancy was terminated and she went back to her boyfriend, who told her to have another one.
“We were like OK, we’re moving forward.
And then I was like I’m pregnant,” she admits.
“My whole body just stopped moving.
I had to go into labor again.
And that was it.
And I was just sobbing.”
In addition to the pregnancy, the couple was separated and she was forced to move in with her mom.
“It was a difficult time,” she explains.
“We were living in the same apartment.
I wasn’t able to be with my boyfriend.
I couldn’t be with her.
She was really close to me and I was very attached to her.
I would spend hours with her in the mornings and evenings.
But we weren’t able the time for us to be together.”
The couple’s story is a common one for many who have gotten pregnant in the past year.
It’s a situation that’s not unheard of among people who are having sex in public places.
“Many times, people just don’t think about that.
You can’t think of this pregnancy, or this pregnancy as a sexual relationship,” says Dr. Amy Sussman, a OB-GYN at the University of Michigan Medical School.
“They don’t consider it as a way to make a commitment to each other.”
But that doesn’t mean that a pregnancy is always a bad thing.
“Pregnancy is a way of expressing love and connection, so it’s not like it’s a bad or shameful thing,” says Sussmann.
“In fact, it’s kind of a positive thing because it shows that the person is not just doing this to get laid, but that they are trying to be a good parent and have a relationship with their child.”
Dr. Sussmans perspective is different from that of the National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy, which says that the use of sex in the public sphere can cause a lot of damage to young women and can actually be a gateway to teen pregnancy.
“One of the things that’s really important about teen pregnancy is that it doesn’t happen to everyone,” says Jenny Rader, a director at NCPUP.
“There’s definitely a lot more teens who have sex in schools and in bars than there are people who do that in their bedrooms.”
Dr Rader points out that some teens may not be aware of the consequences of sex outside of sexual intercourse.
“If a person is engaging in sex in a public place and it’s considered OK, it may be acceptable, but if that person has a STD and it becomes known, that person may not feel comfortable in the community because that person is putting themselves at risk,” she argues.
“So that’s why we need to be very careful about the way we talk about sex and our sexual health in general.”
While sex between two people is something that can be safely and easily performed, Rader says that it is a risky and intimate relationship, which can lead to a host of health